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How to ask someone about their hearing loss

How to Ask Someone about their Hearing Loss


A lot of people can feel uncomfortable to to ask questions about my hearing loss because they are afraid they are going to offend me or hurt my feelings. But that’s really not the case.

People who ask me questions do not offend me. I actually respect people who ask me questions about my hearing loss because it can help break the ice and establish a better relationship with that person.

If you do want to ask me questions about my hearing loss, there are a few things to keep in mind.

How to Ask Someone about their Hearing Loss

Tone of Voice

Often, the tone of voice in which you ask a question is more important than the actual question. If you ask your question in a sarcastic or rude manner, it can be uncomfortable. Being sensitive and sincere when asking questions is important.

Time and Place

If I’m with a group of people and I’m singled out about my hearing loss it can make me uncomfortable. Try to catch me 1:1 and ask me questions alone, so my hearing loss doesn’t become the center of attention.

Everyone has different communication and speaking methods. Some people with hearing loss might feel more comfortable talking about their hearing loss than others do. If you have questions about someone’s hearing loss, a good way to start that conversation is just by asking them if you can ask some questions. See what they say. If they say no or they are uncomfortable you’ll have your answer. If they say, yes absolutely, then that can lead to a great conversation.

Read more: Growing up with Hearing Loss: How I gained confidence to be myself 

Common Hearing Loss Questions 

Here are some common hearing loss questions I get. These are some great starting questions to get to know the person with hearing loss, and learn how to better communicate with them.

Were you born hard of hearing?

Do you identify as “Deaf” or “hard of hearing”?

How much can you hear?

Why don’t you have a cochlear implant?

Can you swim or surf with your hearing aids?

Do you know sign language?

Do I need to speak louder when I’m talking to you?

How should I introduce you to someone new? (who doesn’t know about your hearing loss)


Watch the video below to see how I answer these questions!


Author Details
Jaime is a 28-year-old professional nomad with a lust for experiencing as much life and Earth as she can. Currently, she lives in Washington State where you can find her adventuring with her pup, camping, snowboarding, surfing or whatever else challenges her. She has bi-lateral, severe-to-profound hearing loss, and wears the Phonak Naída hearing aids. Passionate about traveling, she is always planning her next trip. Her adventures are visible through her photography on Instagram @jaimedelpizzo